Why Must We Feud

This article is about all this feuding that tends to go on within this community. I don't understand the reason for it. The only thing that I see is this disease called EGOMANIA. So many people in this field are so full of themselves, they actually think they are experts. Well, let me tell ya, I haven't found one yet. The reason I say this is that in order to be an expert, you need to know almost everything about the field that you are in. You can trust me when I say that no one in this field is an expert. You may ask why I say this. My answer to that is these creatures are still a mystery. The reason for that is everyone wants to say that BF makes these vocalizations, although there have been studies on this and all anyone can say is that the vocalizations are of UNKNOWN ORIGIN and that is it. Then you get these claims of habituation so extreme, it goes to the extent of talking and carrying on conversations with these creatures. Even going as far as "telepathic communication". I do not believe these claims myself because no one can put forth any type of evidence to substantiate these claims. Then you have these people that come to their defense when you start asking them questions. My question is, "Do you people not realize how un-credible these claims tend to make US ALL look?" When you tend to support these stories without evidence or any type of proof what so ever, you tend to make yourselves and this whole community look like we all need to be in a mental hospital. How do you ever expect us to be believable when you continually make yourselves look like crazy people by supporting these claims that have no evidence or proof to back them up?

Now, let's get back to the reason I chose to write this article. The main reason is that recently, I was drawn into an argument between two people in this field. Something was said that turned out to be a lie and something was done that I think was completely unethical. The reason I say this is for the simple fact that if you have a problem with someone, you confront them in a private setting, such as e-mail, phone, or face to face, NOT in a public manner. Another thing that took place is the person at the brunt of the attack asked me to expose a lie that was told. In doing so, I was publicly apologized to by the other party on a forum and over the phone, therefore, I accepted the apology from this person. In the public apology that was made, the person also apologized to the party the attack was directed at. Now the apology was for the way the person handled the problem with the other person, NOT for what he had said pertaining to that person. Although, I don't agree with what was done, the apology was made to my wife and I, and we accepted. Then I told both parties that I did not have a dog in this race and had nothing to do with what took place between them in their past. I only wanted to be friends with each party and do strictly fact based research. So, low and behold, came to find out I had been kicked off of said forum. Although, I am told something different by the admin. of the forum, I can't help but see the reason for my being black-balled was simply because I refused to choose sides. My whole problem with this is that if you are not involved in something that has happened in the past, you should not be forced to choose sides and then ridiculed because you refuse to do so. As for me, I am done with this childish game and refuse to get tangled up in the lies and deceit anymore. So, to ALL that have condemned me, GROW UP AND GET A LIFE.
When you continually bicker back and forth, how in the hell do you expect to be taken seriously when you act like a bunch of 1st graders. Such as, "he likes someone I don't like, so I can't be friends with him anymore." Pathetic, isn't it? If you are true friends, you do NOT do that. You try to get along for the sake of friendship.

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